Recognizing The Signs You Are In Love

By Jayde Johannsen


When you find your heart racing at the sight of your partner; when all your time is spent thinking about them or when you feel sick being apart from them for more than a short time, these are signs you are in love. These feelings in the early stages of your relationship might mean it blooms into true love, or maybe it will die if not properly nurtured.

Whether your initial passions continue to develop can only be discovered in the fullness of time. In years to come if the butterflies are still there, then it is a good sign of your relationship being in great shape. It is all too easy to think that what you are feeling is love when it is just pure lust and not something lasting.

Part of loving a person is tolerance; everyone has faults, but when we can tolerate their snoring or bad habits then it is likely that your overall feelings for them far outweigh their bad points. Compromise and acceptance are key factors to building a solid relationship; things you did when you were single may no longer be appropriate.

This does not necessarily mean you should give up your individuality; they fell in love with you as should not expect you to change to suit them; nor should you ask them to change. Loving the person for who they are is a sure sign that you care about them deeply.

Once the honeymoon period of passion and desire subsides, what remains should be your true feelings. The realization that you would gladly give your life for this person or make significant sacrifices to ensure their happiness are all signs left by the love bug which has obviously bitten.

Even if the bug has bitten you very badly, do not be tempted to smother your partner. There are times when you each need to be alone and absence really can make the heart grow fonder. A few hours or even days apart can be a real tonic.

If you recognize the signs you are in love then you need to keep those feelings strong for the times when things may be less than rosy. Caring deeply for your partner will help you through any rough waters ahead and hopefully see you sailing away together towards a glorious sunset and spending the rest of your days together happily on calm seas.




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